Dating someone who has a child
I only found out my ex had a child a few days after we met.
I want to begin spending the night at my girlfriend’s, but fear that doing so will compromise my relationship with her daughters.
It was the relationship he had with the mother of his child.
I felt as though she was controlling and it felt like she always wanted to know what he was doing. I didn’t like how she’d be messaging him to initiate day to day conversations. Another strange thing was that he was living in a flat owned by her father.
You and your girlfriend should talk seriously about this next step.
If possible, consider sleeping over when her children are not at home or are elsewhere.
Only after a relationship is very serious should you consider exposing the children to this side of your relationship.