Dating a mentally challenged person
Most people have had a relationship in their past that is very hard to let go of. This is the one that felt as if it was meant to be.
This is the one that felt like true love, yet would just not work.
If you are ever to be fulfilled in any relationship, you must let go completely of this past partner.
You don’t believe that you will meet another partner who will give you all the good you had in your ex-relationship.
Think about, even list, all of the qualities that you loved about your ex. On the day that it was a year since we lost the baby, he was extremely intoxicated and under the influence. He was extremely upset at himself for doing this and took himself to rehab that same day.
Add to the list the activities the two of you did that made you feel satisfied. He moved into an apartment with two friends that were extremely bad influences. A few months later we ended up working things out and moving in together. But then came the beginning of the summer and things got horrible.
After all the drama between the two of us, I am nothing but mad.
Now you have a good idea of what you are looking for in your next partner or what you should put into your current relationship. Moving on to another relationship after such an experience is difficult. Saw her a couple weeks ago and she just brushed our time aside as it never happened. So, we were together 2 years and lived together for a year. He then began to due drugs again (his real parents were drug addicts and alcoholics). He went over to his friends out that recently got divorced.But to let go of someone who is well and alive and possibly still loves you is an incredible task.Yet let go you must if the partner you are clinging to does not meet your needs.You believe that with the loss of this relationship you have lost the chance to get what you really wanted, and that now you will have to settle for less.
The ultimate dilemma is how to let go of the living, breathing former partner who may love you, or whom you may love, and yet who is not good for you and is not available to you; how to let go of the one who seems to have been the one. Understand and accept that your partner would have given you the moon and the stars if he could have.
No matter what you did or did not do, your ex was, is and will continue to be a person with certain behaviors, habits, thoughts and ways of doing relationships. Forgive your ex, forgive yourself, and understand that her behavior was not your fault.